Finding love can often feel like a game, and for many singles in Salt Lake City, it truly is at the 'Date My Mate' event hosted at Quarters Arcade Bar. On a recent Sunday evening, the vibrant downtown venue buzzed with anticipation as participants geared up to showcase their single friends through lighthearted presentations filled with humor and camaraderie. The event, which encourages participants to take the stage and deliver a PowerPoint presentation about their chosen friend, has garnered attention not only for its unique format but also for its ability to foster genuine connections among attendees. Jimmy Glasscock, a 25-year-old Midvale resident, stood alongside his best friend, Jack Cropper, as they prepared to entertain the crowd. "At the end of the day, I’m just trying to put myself out there," he shared, embodying the spirit of the event. The format allows friends to both hype up and roast their companions, making for an entertaining mix of praise and playful jabs. As the lights dimmed and laughter filled the room, Glasscock described Cropper as "a little sweetie who loves back rubs and sweet nothings whispered in his ear," showcasing the affectionate nature of their friendship. The 'Date My Mate' event was conceived last August by Brandon Luong and Bite Club SLC as a light-hearted initiative, initially intended as a joke. However, the concept quickly gained traction, leading to sold-out events that have captivated the local dating scene. "I just thought it would be funny for me and a group of friends to go up on stage and roast each other and maybe get each other some dates," Luong explained. His vision of creating a space for both singles and their supporters to mingle has proven successful, with attendees welcomed regardless of their relationship status. Inside the bustling Quarters Arcade Bar, the atmosphere was electric with energy, laughter, and the sound of retro arcade games. Attendees eagerly awaited their turn to present, creating a lively environment that fostered connection. For many, the event represents an opportunity not just to find potential romantic partners, but also to bond with friends and meet new people. "This event is about finding love, but it’s also about loving your friends, too," Luong emphasized. "Just seeing people come up on stage and hype up their friends, I don’t think I’m ever going to get tired of seeing that." As singles took to the stage, the presentations varied in tone from heartwarming to hilarious. After their presentation, Glasscock reflected on the challenges of dating in the modern age, noting, "I don’t like being on the apps because they just kinda bum me out. You spend a lot of time on it. You really don’t get a lot of dates out of it or meet people." His sentiment resonates with many young adults today, as traditional dating methods evolve in an increasingly digital world. A recent report by analysts at the Kem C. Gardner Policy Institute highlighted significant changes in marriage trends in Utah. The percentage of married individuals in the state has dropped from approximately 63 percent in 1980 to below 55 percent in 2023. This trend mirrors a national decline, with the share of married adults falling from 57 percent to 48 percent. The decline is particularly pronounced among younger adults, with marriage rates for those aged 25-34 dropping by more than 20 points since 1980. As more individuals postpone marriage, the approach to dating is also shifting. Loni Harmon, a dating counselor based in Layton, noted that many people are seeking in-person experiences rather than relying solely on dating apps. "People are interested in in-person events and finding people authentically vs. swiping. They’re burnt out from being ghosted and tired of short-term pals that don’t turn into actual relationships," Harmon explained. The 'Date My Mate' event provides a refreshing alternative, allowing participants to engage in a fun, relaxed setting where they can connect on a deeper level. The event has become a platform for personal growth as well. Cropper expressed his gratitude for the experience, saying, "I’m starting to build more confidence in myself because of your presentation. Thanks buddy, I love you." This sentiment encapsulates the true essence of 'Date My Mate'—not just a quest for romantic connections but a celebration of friendship and self-empowerment. As the evening concluded, attendees left with smiles, new connections, and perhaps a newfound sense of confidence. The blend of humor, friendship, and the potential for romance has made 'Date My Mate' a unique fixture in Salt Lake City’s social landscape, proving that sometimes, love can truly be found in the most unexpected places. With the success of the event, organizers are hopeful that it will continue to grow, bringing together more singles eager to laugh, connect, and possibly find love in a fun and engaging atmosphere.